David, a psychological counsellor and your host for this discussion club, talks about relationships a lot. How would you know if the person you're dating is a good long-term partner? How do you know if they'll support you in your times of need? How do you know if you'll be able to support them? How do you know if the two of you are compatible? How would you define compatible? At what point should you give up on them? How do you even know if they intend to stay with you for a long time at all? How do you know if the person is the right person for you? If you're right for them? These aren't new questions but so many of us don't know how to navigate them. Let's talk about them with a psychologist!

Of course, there are no quick answers to any of the above questions but there are guidelines you can follow to find them. It also depends on the types of people involved in the relationship, how long they've been together, and what they've experienced as a couple. Another big thing is knowing ourselves before we can make a sound decision on our partners. Let's dive deeply into all of that. Let's have an enlightening, open-minded, and intelligent discussion!

David是一位心理咨询师，也是这次俱乐部的主持人，他经常谈论人际关系。你怎么知道和你约会的人是否是一个好的长期伴侣?你怎么知道他们是否会在你需要的时候支持你?你怎么知道你能不能养活他们?你怎么知道你们俩是否合得来?你如何定义兼容?什么时候你应该放弃他们?你怎么知道他们是否打算和你在一起很长一段时间?你怎么知道这个人是否适合你?你是否适合他们?这些都不是新问题，但我们中的许多人都不知道如何驾驭它们。让我们和专业的心理学家谈谈吧!

当然，上述问题都没有快速的答案，但你可以遵循一些指导方针来找到它们。这也取决于关系中涉及的人的类型，他们在一起多久了，以及他们作为夫妻经历了什么。另一件重要的事情是在我们对我们的伴侣做出明智的决定之前，先了解我们自己。让我们深入了解这一切。让我们来一场启发性的、开放的、智慧的讨论吧!